Obstacles & Challenges
"We must gradually accustom ourselves to improve our souls through strength of purpose, and to endure a little difficulty in order that, as a result of this, we may pursue a praiseworthy course. To wish that no accident should come to pass is like wishing not to exist. If we desire that this not be a part of nature, we desire the impossible; he who desires the impossible will have his wish denied, and he whose wish is denied is miserable."
- Kabbalist Solomon Gabirol c. 10th century
Solomon Gabirol was one of the most influential Kabbalists of ancient times. He was the seed that spawned the mystical age of Kabbalah in Spain during the 11th and 12 centuries.
We learn from his words that obstacles and challenges are woven into the very fabric of existence. Instead of wishing them away, or running from them, we must embrace and transcend them if we are to find genuine happiness and fulfillment.
Just as the stress and strain of lifting a set of barbells strengthens our biceps, obstacles strengthen our Godmuscle— our soul!
There are two ways to tackle obstacles and challenges:
1. Complain, whine and become a victim (the infamous "Why me?" syndrome), in which case the obstacles become even more painful.
2. Or, I can freely choose to chase after the obstacle with spiritual fervor, accepting responsibility for their appearance in my life, while all the time knowing that great Light and fulfillment will result from my effort to triumph over it.
Both alternatives strengthen the soul. Unfortunately, humanity knows the first path all too well. So why should we continue to choose the route of suffering? Granted, complaining and moaning are natural reflexes when it comes to confronting turmoil. But we find our humanity and spiritual greatness in the moment we choose to resist these reactive impulses.
Using the power tools of Kabbalah, we can now ensure a swift victory over our hardships relative to the degree that we accept and embrace them.
The choice is ours.
It always has been.
by Rav Berg